Selasa, 28 April 2009

Coz u'r life is priceless....(2)

....When your guilty feelings is continuosly maintained, you will not be able to go. Dr Phil McGraw (log on to www.drphil.com) gives some suggestions including: open heart and mind, caring yourself, being bold, don't punish yourself, and the last is start to make a new relationship.

First of all is open heart and mind. When you have a great offense in the heart, your soul and your mind will not work normally. For that reason try to say yourself, "Yes everything is ended. And it is not either because of anything neither the mistake of me." Receive the situation will make you more open-hearted and ready to accept new possibilities that are waiting in the future.

Second is caring yourself. By blaming yourself, it means you don't care for its. As a result, there will continue to feel foolish and denial has caused bad things happen. Hey remember, if you can not forgive yourself, you will not be able to heal the wound!

Third is being bold. Often we thought, in feeling sad time to loose someone, describe the feeling of pity in it to her. Contention that there is true, indeed. But, also not a betrayal if you try to forget her ASAP. Forget the pain, including all the dreams that you already build with her.


Sabtu, 11 April 2009

Coz u'r life is priceless....(1)

When a relationship ends, you may still always look back. It's feeling guilty, why leave the relationship that has been stranded so long that disperse. “If only that time me…”

Ah never mind! Forget that entire course. Leave it all ends.
When your guilty feeling is continuously maintained, you will not be able to go.

.........(2 be continued)